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"see you later" implies either you'll meet again in the same context, or you
have an appointment and expect to see that person at a specific time
"see ya round" implies your relationship is not defined by a particular piece
of geography, meaning it has the potential to be more comprehensive,
wholesome, and unexpected.
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=== SIMILARITY RANKED ===
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An important aspect to friendship is "loose" time together - like, at a party,
you might interact with a dozen people, or you might spend it all with one
special someone - but the time is "loose" you can do with it what you will.
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--- #2 fediverse/3089 ---
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if you're meeting a friend from out of town the first time, it's best if they
arrive early and you have the day off to show them around.
or if they arrive late, you can meet them in a public place the next day and
then spend time at your favorite spots.
ideally, with people who would recognize you if the person from out of town
decided to be hurtful and/or replace you.
plus, that way you can gauge their character
and decide whether or not you want them in your own home.
they might be different than they are online, after all.
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"A witch is neither late, nor is she early. She intentionally arrives when you
don't need her, so that you can learn what to do when you do need her instead
of needing her."
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thanks to the internet, people in suburbs are no less radical than people in
the cities.
often, just less experienced. less connected. greater distance between ties...
which means that if one of them is found, it'll take a while before their
relations can be dispatched.
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some people think "being honest" is the same thing as "accurately displaying
what you think and believe" is the same thing as the not same thing as "being
deceitful or otherwise hiding your intentions"
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"she has a certain, I don't know what, je ne sais quoi? that I don't know what
to describe as."
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--- #7 fediverse/6457 ---
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the second rule is you don't have to hang out with mortals. there are places
you can go where they won't find you, except by accident, and then you just go
somewhere else.
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When someone remakes content into a different expression like a remake or
reboot or whatever it gives a different message in its meaning - some
circumstances and characters can apply for more than one message I'm it's
meaning
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your reactions to your context are what define you, and when you're alone you
are free to define yourself as you will.
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--- #10 fediverse/207 ---
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@user-179 @user-180
still means it will kill "unimportant" jobs, where "unimportant" is defined by
people in power.
so what we need is a way to align the incentives of "people in power" to the
will of the people. something structural and immutable (by them). maybe like,
an extra check or balance that wouldn't have made sense in a bygone age but
now in our digital era is increasingly more and more relevant?
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@user-95
{ah but you see when they say "attention" they mean "paying attention to me,
in particular" which is different than "attention" in the abstract sense,
which (like you said) is often intensely and excessively applied in a
misaligned direction.}
[Misaligned according to someone else, not necessarily according to the ADHD
person.]
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@user-1074
my family includes my friends. My family is smaller than my community, but
it's still a useful category of people. Those you are close enough with to
mutually seek to spend time together, compared to a community which is those
who take care of each other, work together, and live through time with.
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diffuse, in the moment, it's helpful to redefine
what is your purpose? what [direction] do you place your mind?
I'm not sure what I want from this moment. This moment is all that there is!
so therefore it is perfect, as it is the only moment that there is. [shall be].
I'm not sure how this relates... could you repeat that last bit? oh right:
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"trick or treat" doesn't mean "give me a trick or a treat"
that's awfully presumptuous and demanding.
No, it means "give me a treat or I'll trick you" meaning "give me my candy tax
or I'll fuck up your lawn"
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@user-1171
"gee I never hear from you how would I know that if people like you didn't say
something valuable and important like this"an appreciative someone
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I refuse to be known by anyone who doesn't know me. But I'm always meeting
people anew, so if they spent some time with me and saw more of my facets,
perhaps they might come to know me.
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"let us know when you're leaving, not when you arrive."
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if they can't get into your phone, they can at least record all of the
received notifications.
meaning they already know who it is that you know...
without having to find people that are distant or unrelated
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oh, unless you meant "show me the t-shirt" in which case here ya go
don't get too excited, I attended for a year and then dropped out. Might have
even been a semester, I forget. It was sooooooo hard
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people gravitate toward other people who are in different situations but who
feel the same.
it's not always a bad thing to "talk past each other" - sometimes you just
want to say how you feel.
then again, if nobody can understand wtf you're talking about, then surely you
are lost.
all good ideas come at the cost of the second-most-favorable-option.
all good ideas come at the cost of the current destination.
[current, flawed,]
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