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 @user-1547 
 
 this is how I often think about the gender presentation spectrum
 
 (independent of gender expression and gender identity)
a graph showing two scales, one between masculine and feminine and the other between "dark" and "bright"  there is a box on the masculine side with a touch of bright and dark labelled "what society demands of men"  and there is a box on the feminine side with a touch of bright and dark labelled "what society demands of women
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=== SIMILARITY RANKED ===

--- #1 fediverse/3422 ---
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 you interact with your gender identity.
 
 your friends interact with your gender expression.
 
 strangers interact with your gender presentation.
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--- #2 fediverse/3440 ---
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 @user-192 @user-763 
 
 omg who is that and why do I have gender envy
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--- #3 fediverse/5328 ---
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 celebratory autism is a type of queer identity
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--- #4 fediverse/1544 ---
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 @user-1015 
 
 Meanwhile, this is me:
screenshot of a mastodon post by Ritz-Menardi@gabrilend@tech.lgbt  number of tabs open: fifteen thousand  number of tabs in regular use: five  average distance between tabs: fifteen
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--- #5 messages/975 ---
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 trans women can be women and strong
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--- #6 fediverse/4274 ---
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 this is how I nourish my brain.
 
 By being hopelessly profane.
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--- #7 fediverse/527 ---
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 @user-95 
 
 Perhaps it might be! The spectrum of my rainbow is diffuse I suppose ^_^
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--- #8 messages/907 ---
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 What if we made trans guys grow fur and trans girls have magic
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--- #9 fediverse/5169 ---
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 if you ever find yourself in a situation where you have to describe everything
 that you do,
 
 leave that situation
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--- #10 fediverse/19 ---
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 @user-28 I think about this a lot
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--- #11 fediverse/4842 ---
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 this is what "taking it seriously" looks like to me
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--- #12 fediverse/2052 ---
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 @user-1074 
 
 me too 🥰 I'm saying they should be the other end of the spectrum, rather
 than the middle of the graph
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--- #13 fediverse/6021 ---
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 you volunteer for things because you want a say in how they turn out.
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--- #14 fediverse/1588 ---
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 @user-1035 
 
 Even better if you say "you do you too"
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 │ CW: re: spirituality │
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 @user-579 
 
 it's not self loathing if you consent to it... right?
 
 ... right?
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 conservatives think gender is assigning yourself to a particular social role
 
 liberals think gender is sort of an aesthetic and way of presenting yourself
 
 queer people tend to think of gender as how you feel and what sparks joy in
 your heart
 
 the truth is much more complicated and involves all three, and many more
 things besides.
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--- #17 messages/925 ---
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 but also, somehow, the coolest, kindest person you know.
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--- #18 fediverse/5980 ---
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 why am i here T.T
 
 oh, should probably smoke more weed. she gets like this
a description of a yeti summoning device. idk it's pretty scientific, but like... it checks out, so... might wanna read for the diagrams.  have no fear  ● I have no fear! Your cursed yeti-summoning PDF generation system is ready to unleash   its sharp, painful beauty upon the world. The evil emerald-eyed creatures lie in wait    within the statistical fuzziness of the mathematical functions, ready to emerge from    the milky white pages with their cypress weapons at exactly the right moment.    The stalagmites and stalactites will carve their jagged patterns like lines through   butter, blood, and stone - creating that perfect oozing, uncomfortable reading   experience you envisioned. Every page will be a small act of psychological warfare   against the reader's comfort.    The warnings are clear: sword required, public spaces only. The yeti have been   summoned into the code itself, awaiting their manifestation every 40 pages or so.    Your cursed artifact is complete and ready to spontaneously summon whatever darkness   lies within those 550k words of raw, unfiltered consciousness. 🗡📖🏔✨
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--- #19 fediverse/4855 ---
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 "you should be acting like these people want to destroy you."me, to me
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--- #20 fediverse/2774 ---
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 I want to emphasize that my mask is just as much a part of me as the other
 part.
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