=== ANCHOR POEM ===
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 harsh lessons of adulthood - sometimes food is not eaten for the taste, but
 rather for how it will make you feel slightly better in the next few days.
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=== SIMILARITY RANKED ===

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 in regards to my food habits, PLEASE do as I say, not as I do. for your own
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--- #2 fediverse/3093 ---
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 *life is so much more than following your rules and fulfilling your
 obligations*
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 @user-1074 
 
 yeah drinking's overrated. I know I'd rather eat a home-cooked meal any day.
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--- #4 fediverse/2260 ---
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 cookies or cheetos for dinner is better than nothing for dinner, but please
 eat your vegetables when you can.
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 food-mentioned
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--- #6 fediverse/3352 ---
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 @user-192 
 
 relatable... somehow
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--- #7 fediverse/3656 ---
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 they say you should always shop for groceries after a meal, so you don't buy
 the things you want to eat in that moment but instead the things you know in
 your heart to be good for you
 
 but I just always end up looking for desert
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--- #8 fediverse/6027 ---
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 some days I feel like someone else's lesson and that can be hard.
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 note to self: children are an exception, they are more important than anything
 else.
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--- #10 fediverse/751 ---
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 went to costco, got a ton of delicious and nutritious food... yet I subsist on
 pickles >.>
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--- #11 messages/162 ---
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 Life *is* beautiful, but it's selfish to live it.
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--- #12 fediverse/1013 ---
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 @user-246 @user-473 
 
 it's not like it goes bad
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--- #13 fediverse/3300 ---
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 @user-1052 @user-192 
 
 I'd rather be unhappy and useful than happy and a burden
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 eat another pickle
 
 you surely will not regret eating another pickle
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--- #15 messages/1514 ---
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 just because someone is giving you what you need doesn't mean they'll help you
 when in need.
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--- #16 fediverse/3816 ---
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 the tricky part of being an adult is that your problems become less and less
 google-able.
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--- #17 fediverse/5169 ---
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 if you ever find yourself in a situation where you have to describe everything
 that you do,
 
 leave that situation
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--- #18 fediverse/4035 ---
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 don't worry about eating or using the last of the thing. You can just *go to
 the store to get more*
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--- #19 fediverse/5695 ---
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 suffering is decay
being disabled is a disability, and we should attempt to ameliorate the added difficulties from said disability. Like, ramps for wheelchairs, ADA, or more controversially, financial aid. Because buying things is how we contribute to the economy, and increasingly the economy *is* our society. It's unfair for those who cannot work or cannot live with others (because they smell like they pissed themselves 24/7) should not be forced to live in a worse world just because we believe everyone should be equal. Some people are not equal. Some people piss themselves, and the fact that they can't have roommates means they have to spend more money on housing than others. That's an inequity that doesn't have to exist. In fact it is easily solvable using our currently active systems, namely... dollars are able to be given.  what is the purpose of a man to a society? What do we mean to do here on this earth? how best could our structures and our cultures be utilized to align ourselves toward our most desired of purpose? And what is that purpose, do you think (for each man)? y'know I bet that's something we could ascertain now that we have an AI that can talk to every single person ever and build up a database of their ideas of morality.     file: /home/ritz/words/notes/disability
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 @user-192 
 
 Good point it's sooooooo salty
 
 I have fond memories of eating a spoonful of that instead of making food back
 in college because... hey, it's got vegetables in it, right?
 
 turns out it's mostly just salt with flavor
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--- #21 messages/1532 ---
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 wisdom for the wise: avoid success as long as you can manage. money makes your
 stuff nicer, but it makes it harder to trust your friends.
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 "okay but why are you so focused on outliving it"
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--- #23 messages/663 ---
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 "cheetos are not a healthy dinner!" my mother's voice echoes through my mind
 as I reach for my chopsticks
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--- #24 messages/1372 ---
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 Story of my life...
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--- #25 fediverse/2343 ---
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 @user-1239 
 
 you say that like it's a good thing.
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 Sauteed vegetables, my beloved
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--- #27 fediverse/2812 ---
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 when you're alone, everything that happens to you is personal.
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--- #28 fediverse/2536 ---
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 @user-1074 
 
 if you're anything like me, then it *will* happen again. It's okay. A friend
 won't judge you, a friend would forgive you.
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--- #29 fediverse/3166 ---
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 I'm one of those weirdos who likes hot sauce more for the "sauce" than the
 "hot"
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--- #30 fediverse/3926 ---
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 be yourself? don't sweat it
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 @user-579 
 
 somehow that doesn't feel any better : (
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 the best time to experiment is when cooking for one.
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--- #33 fediverse/1955 ---
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 I like cooking at home because I can just double each recipe and think about
 food half as often.
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